Use the site, she urges, to assist your interior decorating, or to get cool crafty ideas.
Being that I actually am planning a wedding, I can tell you what the Brides.com site/tool is good for: making me feel very cheap and inferior.
Seriously, who creates these table settings with 18 different components and layers. Who can afford to give favors that look like they are $100 baskets full of goodies?
Here's my table idea: A cornucopia of seasonal fruits and vegetables on every table, and a canvas grocery bag as a favor, so people can take the fruits and vegetables home. I like the colors green and purple, so in my one concessions to style over substance I am going to try to pick seasonal fruits and vegetables in that color scheme.
Other than that, I'm going au naturel instead of au-ver the top!